So...my sister works for the Church. They are doing a project. She asked me the questions below. After answering them, I felt so grateful for the experiences I had. I thought I'd share the questions and the answers below:
A. How did you see the Gospel of Jesus Christ change the lives of the people you taught?
I always loved seeing the people give up habits and turn their lives over to the Lord. I loved seeing their faith in the Priesthood.
B. Do you have any powerful conversion stories from your mission you could share with us?
One lady, Tammy Thomas, found us. She had showed up in church on Sunday with several children, some hers, some relatives. We went over and introduced ourselves. We asked if we could come over the next evening.
At some point during the discussions she told us that her decision to come to our church was based on her opening the phonebook that Sunday, offering a prayer and saying that she would go to whichever church the book landed open on. It landed open on The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints. She followed through, did what was needed, and became baptized along with her son and nephew. It was a powerful, miraculous experience for me. She was a great example of faith, and I think the Lord knew that she would really follow the inspiration given to her.
C. Do you remember any specific moments when you felt the Lord guiding your work as a missionary?
Of course. When serving in the same area as the lady mentioned before - things had been going slow. So Elder Mathews and I set a goal to have a certain number of baptisms. It was pretty high for the time and area, but we knew the Lord would provide. I believe we either reached or came really close to that goal, it may have been reached just after I left the area through my companion. This same principle of goal setting came in handy when I served later as the Ward Mission Leader. We didn’t quite meet our goals (which were set purposely high), but we were blessed with many converts two separate times, and it was as much as we could receive at the time. Setting goals with faith and with the Lord works!
D. Can you share a time when you could tell the Lord had been preparing the hearts of those you were teaching?
I think the story mentioned above was one situation. There were two separate incidents both involving exchange students from Albania. In the first situation, the girl was in a bad living setup and the bishop took her in. She was soon baptized. The other situation was a young man, about the same age, who was living with a member family. We worked with him off and on. We never were able to invite him to be baptized because he was the one who approached us about it. It was such a great experience to teach and know him. He is a great guy.
E. Can you tell me about some moments where you felt you were serving where you were supposed to be?
I think I feel that way about every area - especially looking back, most particularly though about my second area in Choctaw, Oklahoma. The morning after transfers - I felt like I had been through areas I had never seen. It was quite a strong sense of “deja vu”. Call it what you will, I felt at home in that area.
F. How and when did you feel the Savior was supporting you in your mission?
I struggled with intense homesickness accompanied by panic attacks at the beginning of my mission. I look back and I’m not quite sure how I endured it other than it had to have been the blessings, journal writing, and intense feelings of the Spirit. Knowing I was doing the right thing at the time in my life gave me strength. Honestly, I don’t know if I recognized His hand fully at the time. I believed I was being helped, but I don’t know if I ever had that conscious thought. I look back now, 18 years later and I know I was being helped. Too many things worked out for the best. The Lord really does help us. In our full-time missions and even after. I would say especially after. Perhaps a mission trains us to recognize His hand more fully.
G. Do any moments come to mind of when you turned the work over to the Lord and saw how He was able to use you as an instrument in His hands?
I think the example I shared above about goals illustrates this. There is another example though. I asked to extend my mission by about 6 weeks a few months before I went home. For that final transfer President asked me to serve as an Traveling Assistant with a few other Elders. I remember that first day as an A.P. not knowing what to do. I shed tears and prayed. I felt as out of my element as I did the first day in the field. We didn’t have a home base and we were going to be living out of suitcases. I prayed intensely seeking guidance. The answer...was to go and tract in the Elders’ area we were staying in. We got out the door. The Spirit came and my worries lifted.
Those six weeks were powerful. We worked closely with President Engebretsen going where he would send us and where we felt so inclined. I remember having some great experiences with other missionaries and seeing parts of the mission I would have never seen. They were probably some of my favorite weeks.
I think the reason this experience was so powerful was because, even though I had been out 2 years, I still had areas I could grow, and the Lord knew it. He taught me. I became even more than I would have because I put myself in His hands. This principle also applies to life after the mission. Life is a mission, and if we will follow the Lord, He will mold us in His image - gradually over time. I’m grateful for that because I know my weakness and I still feel hope!
Thursday, September 15, 2016
Sunday, August 28, 2016
Ending a School Year and Measuring its Impact
The humor for me here is that I am finally able to process everything that happened last year and this year has already begun! It all culminated this last Friday when about ten girls from last year's class popped in to say hello. I miss them! I take for granted all the amazing interactions that happen in a class when a teacher really tries to make a one on one connection with each student. The results are amazing, but it isn't just results:
I have FIFTY-SIX people in my life from last year that mean the world to me. Each one of them brought something special to me, and I am not just saying that.
I miss seeing them daily. I miss their humor and struggles. I miss worrying about them and being able to impact them. I now worry that they make the transition from childhood to teenager to adult successfully. Most do, some struggle. I miss my time of being able to influence them daily towards successful adulthood. I have to believe they have people in their lives that will guide them along that path.
Ending a school year is always bitter sweet. It is nice to have the break, but there is always the realization that most likely these interactions with students won't ever be the same again: The inside jokes, the personal struggles and victories, the heartbreaking events in their lives. These are the things that make a school year. The instruction is lovely and fulfilling for me, but the connections and love I gain from being a teacher and mentor to these students is what it is all about.
You cannot measure it. You cannot replace it. It's a blessing in my life.
I have often thought about the path that led me to being a teacher. I can see the Lord's hand in it. He took my personality and some of my desires, and He put me in a position that would be the best for me. He will do that for anyone who wants it. He knew me better than I knew myself. This is my twelfth year and it just gets better. I'm grateful for the stretching that comes from this "job" (honestly, it feels more like a calling most of the time). I'm grateful that there are hundreds of kids that I can call my own and that I love.
Teaching definitely isn't about all the money I'm raking in, for me it's about trying to change a life, and sometimes save a life. Sometimes it's the life of a student, many times it is mine. Teaching success is measured in more than just test scores. It is measured in love, time, tears and in people.
Lucky me!
I have FIFTY-SIX people in my life from last year that mean the world to me. Each one of them brought something special to me, and I am not just saying that.
I miss seeing them daily. I miss their humor and struggles. I miss worrying about them and being able to impact them. I now worry that they make the transition from childhood to teenager to adult successfully. Most do, some struggle. I miss my time of being able to influence them daily towards successful adulthood. I have to believe they have people in their lives that will guide them along that path.
Ending a school year is always bitter sweet. It is nice to have the break, but there is always the realization that most likely these interactions with students won't ever be the same again: The inside jokes, the personal struggles and victories, the heartbreaking events in their lives. These are the things that make a school year. The instruction is lovely and fulfilling for me, but the connections and love I gain from being a teacher and mentor to these students is what it is all about.
You cannot measure it. You cannot replace it. It's a blessing in my life.
I have often thought about the path that led me to being a teacher. I can see the Lord's hand in it. He took my personality and some of my desires, and He put me in a position that would be the best for me. He will do that for anyone who wants it. He knew me better than I knew myself. This is my twelfth year and it just gets better. I'm grateful for the stretching that comes from this "job" (honestly, it feels more like a calling most of the time). I'm grateful that there are hundreds of kids that I can call my own and that I love.
Teaching definitely isn't about all the money I'm raking in, for me it's about trying to change a life, and sometimes save a life. Sometimes it's the life of a student, many times it is mine. Teaching success is measured in more than just test scores. It is measured in love, time, tears and in people.
Lucky me!
Friday, August 19, 2016
Accomplishing Good Things - Thanks Brother of Jared for Your Example
I have had the story of the Brother of Jared - specifically the lights in the barge section - in my mind a lot the last few days. We are considering some big choices at this time and we're trying to do the right thing. I think the principle in these verses is really profound and applicable to many of the problems and situations we face. We sometimes struggle because we "think" that there is "one right answer". The brother of Jared could have just said to himself, "Well we'll just have to cross in the dark because the Lord didn't say anything about lights."
BUT he didn't. He saw an opportunity to make life a little easier an better quality. So he approached the Lord. Did the Lord hand out a free answer? Nope. He said, "[W]hat will ye that I should prepare for you?"
I believe that the Lord expects us to believe that He can and will help us achieve goals, dreams, desires that are good. He can build our faith when we need and want to accomplish some great thing - whatever it is. This whole situation the Brother of Jared found himself in was because he wanted to help his family. It was his desire - the Lord was there to help and offer assistance to righteous desires. So...what does that mean for us?
If it worked for the Brother of Jared, it will work for us. We need to be prayerful and counsel with the Lord about what we desire, about what we feel impressed to do, but I believe the Lord will be there to help us. I think He's happy about us being "agents unto ourselves" (D&C 58:28) and He knows our abilities and strength will grow as we pursue things we want that will benefit our families and the people around us. We need to trust Him more. He's not just a law-giver, he's a helper, a friend, a builder, a guide.
So the actual scriptures are right here. Read them for yourselves, they are pretty awesome:
BUT he didn't. He saw an opportunity to make life a little easier an better quality. So he approached the Lord. Did the Lord hand out a free answer? Nope. He said, "[W]hat will ye that I should prepare for you?"
I believe that the Lord expects us to believe that He can and will help us achieve goals, dreams, desires that are good. He can build our faith when we need and want to accomplish some great thing - whatever it is. This whole situation the Brother of Jared found himself in was because he wanted to help his family. It was his desire - the Lord was there to help and offer assistance to righteous desires. So...what does that mean for us?
If it worked for the Brother of Jared, it will work for us. We need to be prayerful and counsel with the Lord about what we desire, about what we feel impressed to do, but I believe the Lord will be there to help us. I think He's happy about us being "agents unto ourselves" (D&C 58:28) and He knows our abilities and strength will grow as we pursue things we want that will benefit our families and the people around us. We need to trust Him more. He's not just a law-giver, he's a helper, a friend, a builder, a guide.
So the actual scriptures are right here. Read them for yourselves, they are pretty awesome:
22 And he cried again unto the Lord saying: O Lord, behold I have done even as thou hast commanded me; and I have prepared the vessels for my people, and behold there is no light in them. Behold, O Lord, wilt thou suffer that we shall cross this great water in darkness?
23 And the Lord said unto the brother of Jared: What will ye that I should do that ye may have light in your vessels? For behold, ye cannot have windows, for they will be dashed in pieces; neither shall ye take fire with you, for ye shall not go by the light of fire.
24 For behold, ye shall be as a whale in the midst of the sea; for the mountain waves shall dash upon you. Nevertheless, I will bring you up again out of the depths of the sea; for the winds have gone forth out of my mouth, and also the rains and the floods have I sent forth.
25 And behold, I prepare you against these things; for ye cannot cross this great deep save I prepare you against the waves of the sea, and the winds which have gone forth, and the floods which shall come. Therefore what will ye that I should prepare for you that ye may have light when ye are swallowed up in the depths of the sea?
Sunday, June 19, 2016
My Father
A misshapen, leather hat.
A walking stick cut from the Narrows in his hand.
Pulling out a map and charting a course.
A voice sounding out words:
Bingo!
Only in America!
Das Fenster!
Love you buddy.
A man walking in the evening towards home with his brown briefcase. The sun behind his back.
Years later rushing towards his son who has returned to face a trial.
Blowing a fake bugle to wake up his boys for their paper routes.
Driving them around town when the snow is too deep.
Making sure his children know what is expected of them. That there is a high standard to bearing the name 'Corry'.
His boy running a race and hearing his encouraging yells all the way to the finish line.
Seeing this man on the passenger's side of a driver's instructor car all over town.
Grandma and her ice cream.
Scribbled on legal pad showing a fake intersection and the results of not watching for 'grandma and her ice cream.'
Silently feeling the hurts of his kids, not knowing what to say, but we know he loves us.
Sending them far from home, knowing they are doing a greater work. Knowing they'll be protected, emotional to let them go, but he does it anyway because he believes in greater things than himself.
Hugging his children fiercely because words won't work when they return to him.
Working tirelessly to help his family. To help his community. His ward. His God.
Working because he loves it. And that is life to him.
Sharing his feelings of God. Of the prophet, his emotions just below the surface.
Being a model of manhood. Not perfect, but inching closer everyday.
His son watching his dad and mom in the rear view mirror, following their boy even though their boy is a dad himself.
That son feeling comfort because he knows his dad is watching out for him...and always will.
The word 'Herr' means Dad to me.
A walking stick cut from the Narrows in his hand.
Pulling out a map and charting a course.
A voice sounding out words:
Bingo!
Only in America!
Das Fenster!
Love you buddy.
A man walking in the evening towards home with his brown briefcase. The sun behind his back.
Years later rushing towards his son who has returned to face a trial.
Blowing a fake bugle to wake up his boys for their paper routes.
Driving them around town when the snow is too deep.
Making sure his children know what is expected of them. That there is a high standard to bearing the name 'Corry'.
His boy running a race and hearing his encouraging yells all the way to the finish line.
Seeing this man on the passenger's side of a driver's instructor car all over town.
Grandma and her ice cream.
Scribbled on legal pad showing a fake intersection and the results of not watching for 'grandma and her ice cream.'
Silently feeling the hurts of his kids, not knowing what to say, but we know he loves us.
Sending them far from home, knowing they are doing a greater work. Knowing they'll be protected, emotional to let them go, but he does it anyway because he believes in greater things than himself.
Hugging his children fiercely because words won't work when they return to him.
Working tirelessly to help his family. To help his community. His ward. His God.
Working because he loves it. And that is life to him.
Sharing his feelings of God. Of the prophet, his emotions just below the surface.
Being a model of manhood. Not perfect, but inching closer everyday.
His son watching his dad and mom in the rear view mirror, following their boy even though their boy is a dad himself.
That son feeling comfort because he knows his dad is watching out for him...and always will.
The word 'Herr' means Dad to me.
Monday, June 6, 2016
President Nelson's Talk on Priesthood Power
This talk was very powerful. I know there is real power in the Priesthood. I'm far from perfect (very far), but I know these things are real. I have felt and been apart of that power. President Nelson makes some great points and explains the high standards required to obtain more spiritual power in our lives. So I am just making a ginormous post that is basically a really long quote from President Nelson:
I urgently plead with each one of us to live up to our privileges as bearers of the priesthood. In a coming day, only those men who have taken their priesthood seriously, by diligently seeking to be taught by the Lord Himself, will be able to bless, guide, protect, strengthen, and heal others. Only a man who has paid the price for priesthood power will be able to bring miracles to those he loves and keep his marriage and family safe, now and throughout eternity.
What is the price to develop such priesthood power? The Savior’s senior Apostle, Peter--that same Peter who with James and John conferred the Melchizedek Priesthood upon Joseph Smith and Oliver Cowdery--declared qualities we should seek to “be partakers of the divine nature.”
He named faith, virtue, knowledge, temperance, patience, godliness, brotherly kindness, charity, and diligence. And don’t forget humility! So I ask, how would our family members, friends, and coworkers say you and I are doing in developing these and other spiritual gifts? The more those attributes are developed, the greater will be our priesthood power.
How else can we increase our power in the priesthood? We need to pray from our hearts. Polite recitations of past and upcoming activities, punctuated with some requests for blessings, cannot constitute the kind of communing with God that brings enduring power. Are you willing to pray to know how to pray for more power? The Lord will teach you.
Are you willing to search the scriptures and feast on the words of Christ—to study earnestly in order to have more power? If you want to see your wife’s heart melt, let her find you on the Internet studying the doctrine of Christ or reading your scriptures!
Are you willing to worship in the temple regularly? The Lord loves to do His own teaching in His holy house. Imagine how pleased He would be if you asked Him to teach you about priesthood keys, authority, and power as you experience the ordinances of the Melchizedek Priesthood in the holy temple. Imagine the increase in priesthood power that could be yours.
Are you willing to follow President Thomas S. Monson’s example of serving others? For decades he has taken the long way home, following promptings of the Spirit to arrive on someone’s doorstep and then hear words such as, “How did you know it was the anniversary of our daughter’s death?” or “How did you know it was my birthday?” And if you truly want more priesthood power, you will cherish and care for your wife, embracing both her and her counsel.
Now, if all of this sounds excessive, please consider how different our relationships with our wife, children, and associates at work would be if we were as concerned about gaining priesthood power as we are in progressing at work or increasing the balance in our bank account. If we will humbly present ourselves before the Lord and ask Him to teach us, He will show us how to increase our access to His power.
In these latter days, we know there will be earthquakes in diverse places. Perhaps one of those diverse places will be in our own homes, where emotional, financial, or spiritual “earthquakes” may occur. Priesthood power can calm the seas and heal fractures in the earth. Priesthood power can also calm the minds and heal fractures in the hearts of those we love.
Are we willing to pray, fast, study, seek, worship, and serve as men of God so we can have that kind of priesthood power? Because two little girls were so eager to be sealed to their family, their father and brother were willing to pay the price to bear the holy Melchizedek Priesthood.
My dear brethren, we have been given a sacred trust—the authority of God to bless others. May each one of us rise up as the man God foreordained us to be—ready to bear the priesthood of God bravely, eager to pay whatever price is required to increase his power in the priesthood. With that power, we can help prepare the world for the Second Coming of our Savior, Jesus Christ. This is His Church, led today by His prophet, President Thomas S. Monson, whom I dearly love and sustain. I so testify in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.
Tuesday, May 31, 2016
Knowing Someone's Name Can Make a Difference - Thoughts on Elder Neil L. Andersen's April 2016 Conference Talk
I love the focus Elder Andersen places on being sensitive to everyone's situation when teaching them the gospel. Too often we think of and compare ourselves to the perfect standard while forgetting that none of us is really quite there. It is easy to become overwhelmed and discouraged. The miracle of the gospel is that Christ can take us from where we are, to where He wants us. The even greater miracle is that he will do it in a way that we are able to feel like we can actually make those steps. He empowers us. Emboldens us. Feeds our confidence. Too often as humans we tend to destroy each other's confidence by showing them how they are failing - rather than focusing on the good and then giving encouragement to be even better. Elder Andersen focuses on our ability to encourage and lift:
While a child’s earthly situation may not be ideal, a child’s spiritual DNA is perfect because one’s true identity is as a son or daughter of God.
President Thomas S. Monson has said: “Help God’s children understand what is genuine and important in this life. Help them develop the strength to choose paths that will keep them safely on the way to eternal life.” Let’s open our arms and our hearts a little wider. These youth need our time and our testimonies.
Brandon, who joined the Church in Colorado in high school, spoke to me of those who reached out to him both before and after his baptism. He said: “I was in the homes of families that lived the gospel. It showed me a standard that I felt I could have in my own family.”
Veronique, born in the Netherlands, attended school with our daughter Kristen when we lived in Germany. Veronique noted: “Students who were Church members had a light about them. I came to realize that that light came from their faith in Jesus Christ and living His teachings.”
My friend Max was baptized when he was eight years old. His father was not a member of any church, and Max could go to church or not go.
As a teenager, after not attending for several months, Max had the feeling that he needed to go back to church and determined one Sunday morning that he would return. But his resolve weakened as he approached the front door of the church; his stomach tightened.
There, standing at the door, was the new bishop. Max didn’t know him, and he felt sure the bishop didn’t know Max. As Max approached, the bishop’s face lit up, and he put his hand out and said, “Max, it’s so good to see you!”
“As he spoke those words,” Max said, “a warm feeling came over me and I knew I had done the right thing.”
Knowing someone’s name can make a difference.
Sunday, May 31, 2015
Forgive Them, For They Know Not What They Do...
I was in Sunday School today, taught by Thomas Griffiths, our neighbor and friend. He was teaching on the life of Jesus Christ. There were many important points brought out, many that are brought out quite often. It was a great lesson. Thomas brought up the crucifixion and how the Savior asked his Father to forgive those crucifying Him. I, of course, have often thought of how the soldiers didn't really know WHO they were crucifying, they were just..."doing their job". What I hadn't thought of before was the fact that none of the people involved in His death REALLY realized what they were doing. None of them. Except Judas. He knew. Though even that is up for debate!
Let me explain, and the explanation comes from my understanding of LDS doctrine. In order for this to make sense, we have to go back to before this life when 1/3 (part) of the hosts of heaven decided to abandon Jesus and His Father's plan and follow Lucifer. Well, that one-third took care of themselves.
What about the rest of us? We either fought valiantly for the Father's plan, or at the least we decided we could go along with it. Who were these people in the pre-mortal life? It was all of us. Every single person that has inhabited the Earth up to this point. We all chose, in one way or another that the Father's plan was good enough for us. I am sure it was much like today, some were super vocal and fought hard, and others were like..."sure...whatever. Sounds nice.".
Again. These are just my personal thoughts on the matter, not any sort of declaration of doctrine.
So. The rest of us come to earth, receive mortal bodies, and go through this mortal experience. Lehi taught about the mission of Jesus Christ and opposition in the Book of Mormon to his son, Jacob (2 Nephi 2: 4-6, 11-14) :
4 And thou hast beheld in thy youth his glory; wherefore, thou art blessed even as they unto whom he shall minister in the flesh; for the Spirit is the same, yesterday, today, and forever. And the way is prepared from the fall of man, and salvation is free.
5 And men are instructed sufficiently that they know good from evil. And the law is given unto men. And by the law no flesh is justified; or, by the law men are cut off. Yea, by the temporal law they were cut off; and also, by the spiritual law they perish from that which is good, and become miserable forever.
6 Wherefore, redemption cometh in and through the Holy Messiah; for he is full of grace and truth.
11 For it must needs be, that there is an opposition in all things. If not so, my firstborn in the wilderness, righteousness could not be brought to pass, neither wickedness, neither holiness nor misery, neither good nor bad. Wherefore, all things must needs be a compound in one; wherefore, if it should be one body it must needs remain as dead, having no life neither death, nor corruption nor incorruption, happiness nor misery, neither sense nor insensibility.
12 Wherefore, it must needs have been created for a thing of naught; wherefore there would have been no purpose in the end of its creation. Wherefore, this thing must needs destroy the wisdom of God and his eternal purposes, and also the power, and the mercy, and the justice of God.
13 And if ye shall say there is no law, ye shall also say there is no sin. If ye shall say there is no sin, ye shall also say there is no righteousness. And if there be no righteousness there be no happiness. And if there be no righteousness nor happiness there be no punishment nor misery. And if these things are not there is no God. And if there is no God we are not, neither the earth; for there could have been no creation of things, neither to act nor to be acted upon; wherefore, all things must have vanished away.
14 And now, my sons, I speak unto you these things for your profit and learning; for there is a God, and he hath created all things, both the heavens and the earth, and all things that in them are, both things to act and things to be acted upon.
https://www.lds.org/scriptures/bofm/2-ne/2?lang=eng
These scriptures teach us about opposition and the role of the Savior in overcoming that opposition. Lehi even teaches that "men are instructed sufficiently that they know good from evil." These people had become caught up in opposition, some of it so convincing that they readily accepted it as truth. Possibly even the scribes and the Pharisees who called for his murder. The scary thing is that these people had a basic understanding of good and evil, yet they lost sight of that through the excitement generated by Satan during this process.
I started this post saying that none of these men (women?) knew what they were really doing. Jesus said, "Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do."
If these people had had a recollection of their previous life, I believe they would have been horrified at their own passion in condemning the very Son of God they had raised their arms and voices to support in the pre-mortal council. They voted for the Savior before this life, and then they slew Him. They had been blinded through the craftiness of the devil and his teachings, his appeals to their pride, and the contention that he raises in the hearts of men. They fell prey.
Did they know what they were doing? I mean REALLY know? I don't actually know the answer to that question, but the Savior said they didn't. A lot of them probably realized that they were doing something wrong, Pilate for example, but did they realize the fact that they were participating in the death of the Son of God?
Let me explain, and the explanation comes from my understanding of LDS doctrine. In order for this to make sense, we have to go back to before this life when 1/3 (part) of the hosts of heaven decided to abandon Jesus and His Father's plan and follow Lucifer. Well, that one-third took care of themselves.
What about the rest of us? We either fought valiantly for the Father's plan, or at the least we decided we could go along with it. Who were these people in the pre-mortal life? It was all of us. Every single person that has inhabited the Earth up to this point. We all chose, in one way or another that the Father's plan was good enough for us. I am sure it was much like today, some were super vocal and fought hard, and others were like..."sure...whatever. Sounds nice.".
Again. These are just my personal thoughts on the matter, not any sort of declaration of doctrine.
So. The rest of us come to earth, receive mortal bodies, and go through this mortal experience. Lehi taught about the mission of Jesus Christ and opposition in the Book of Mormon to his son, Jacob (2 Nephi 2: 4-6, 11-14) :
4 And thou hast beheld in thy youth his glory; wherefore, thou art blessed even as they unto whom he shall minister in the flesh; for the Spirit is the same, yesterday, today, and forever. And the way is prepared from the fall of man, and salvation is free.
5 And men are instructed sufficiently that they know good from evil. And the law is given unto men. And by the law no flesh is justified; or, by the law men are cut off. Yea, by the temporal law they were cut off; and also, by the spiritual law they perish from that which is good, and become miserable forever.
6 Wherefore, redemption cometh in and through the Holy Messiah; for he is full of grace and truth.
11 For it must needs be, that there is an opposition in all things. If not so, my firstborn in the wilderness, righteousness could not be brought to pass, neither wickedness, neither holiness nor misery, neither good nor bad. Wherefore, all things must needs be a compound in one; wherefore, if it should be one body it must needs remain as dead, having no life neither death, nor corruption nor incorruption, happiness nor misery, neither sense nor insensibility.
12 Wherefore, it must needs have been created for a thing of naught; wherefore there would have been no purpose in the end of its creation. Wherefore, this thing must needs destroy the wisdom of God and his eternal purposes, and also the power, and the mercy, and the justice of God.
13 And if ye shall say there is no law, ye shall also say there is no sin. If ye shall say there is no sin, ye shall also say there is no righteousness. And if there be no righteousness there be no happiness. And if there be no righteousness nor happiness there be no punishment nor misery. And if these things are not there is no God. And if there is no God we are not, neither the earth; for there could have been no creation of things, neither to act nor to be acted upon; wherefore, all things must have vanished away.
14 And now, my sons, I speak unto you these things for your profit and learning; for there is a God, and he hath created all things, both the heavens and the earth, and all things that in them are, both things to act and things to be acted upon.
https://www.lds.org/scriptures/bofm/2-ne/2?lang=eng
These scriptures teach us about opposition and the role of the Savior in overcoming that opposition. Lehi even teaches that "men are instructed sufficiently that they know good from evil." These people had become caught up in opposition, some of it so convincing that they readily accepted it as truth. Possibly even the scribes and the Pharisees who called for his murder. The scary thing is that these people had a basic understanding of good and evil, yet they lost sight of that through the excitement generated by Satan during this process.
I started this post saying that none of these men (women?) knew what they were really doing. Jesus said, "Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do."
If these people had had a recollection of their previous life, I believe they would have been horrified at their own passion in condemning the very Son of God they had raised their arms and voices to support in the pre-mortal council. They voted for the Savior before this life, and then they slew Him. They had been blinded through the craftiness of the devil and his teachings, his appeals to their pride, and the contention that he raises in the hearts of men. They fell prey.
Did they know what they were doing? I mean REALLY know? I don't actually know the answer to that question, but the Savior said they didn't. A lot of them probably realized that they were doing something wrong, Pilate for example, but did they realize the fact that they were participating in the death of the Son of God?
Perhaps I am reading too much into this, but I believe quite strongly that all of us were taught correct doctrine and principles before this life. Then we get down here...and it's really hard to sift through all the opposition, voices, and mess we find ourselves in, if we don't take the proper precautions by studying and pondering on the word we may find ourselves doing or supporting things that we will be embarrassed by when we return to God...and I believe with all my heart we will all return.
I suppose the key we need is knowledge: Of who we are and what our business on this planet is. I believe that the answer is found in the Gospel message of Jesus Christ, in His infinite Atonement, and in His ability to save us, even if we "know not what we do." Hopefully each of us can figure out what we ought to do and live our best to accomplish that mission. I often wonder, after this brief stint in mortality, how we are going to feel about our performance here and how true we stayed to our convictions from before this life.
Just some thoughts to ponder I guess...
I suppose the key we need is knowledge: Of who we are and what our business on this planet is. I believe that the answer is found in the Gospel message of Jesus Christ, in His infinite Atonement, and in His ability to save us, even if we "know not what we do." Hopefully each of us can figure out what we ought to do and live our best to accomplish that mission. I often wonder, after this brief stint in mortality, how we are going to feel about our performance here and how true we stayed to our convictions from before this life.
Just some thoughts to ponder I guess...
Friday, May 29, 2015
In Every Time of Trouble
I came across these verses this afternoon while reading. Too often I find myself not trusting God like I should and doing things my way, or somebody else's way. They were spoken to Joseph Smith after he had made a pretty big mistake with the 116 pages (D&C 3:7-8). They are actually quite comforting:
"7 For, behold, you should not have feared man more than God. Although men set at naught the counsels of God, and despise his words—"
"8 Yet you should have been faithful; and he would have extended his arm and supported you against all the fiery darts of the adversary; and he would have been with you in every time of trouble."
Too often we forget the power that God has. He can calm the storms. He can lift the weary. He can heal the broken. Listening and obeying Him more isn't going to "cramp our style" in the end. It will bring us closer to Him, which is, in reality, closer to our REAL self.
I need to work on this!
"7 For, behold, you should not have feared man more than God. Although men set at naught the counsels of God, and despise his words—"
"8 Yet you should have been faithful; and he would have extended his arm and supported you against all the fiery darts of the adversary; and he would have been with you in every time of trouble."
Too often we forget the power that God has. He can calm the storms. He can lift the weary. He can heal the broken. Listening and obeying Him more isn't going to "cramp our style" in the end. It will bring us closer to Him, which is, in reality, closer to our REAL self.
I need to work on this!
Wednesday, March 18, 2015
A Teacher Come from God
This talk from Elder Holland in the April 1998 Conference is exceptionally powerful to me. It may be partially because I spend my day with children. Though my job as a teacher is civic, I believe I can have a more positive influence on days where I remember the principles of this talk. I feel that my "job" is a calling in many ways and that the people and students around me are people I am meant to influence for good...and I want to. I feel that many of our professions put us in the vicinity of people we can make a difference for...and we ought to take advantage of that and spread a little light.
I know for sure that in my Church callings and at my home these principles hold true. I definitely have room for improvement, but these excerpts serve as great guideposts for all of us seeking to better influence the people and children around us who need strengthening.
I have taken a couple of pretty long segments from the talk, but it was impossible for me to not share more of this with my feelings of the importance of the principles being taught. Elder Holland is an excellent teacher himself:
I have taken a couple of pretty long segments from the talk, but it was impossible for me to not share more of this with my feelings of the importance of the principles being taught. Elder Holland is an excellent teacher himself:
"In all of this we must remember that the Lord has never given more emphatic counsel to the Church than that we are to teach the gospel “by the Spirit, even the Comforter which was sent forth to teach the truth.”"
"Do we teach the gospel “by the Spirit of truth?” He has inquired. Or do we teach it “some other way? And if it be by some other way,” He warns, “it is not of God.” In language echoing other commandments, He has said, “If ye receive not the Spirit ye shall not teach.”"
"No eternal learning can take place without that quickening of the Spirit from heaven. So, parents, teachers, and leaders, we must face our tasks the way Moses faced the promised land. Knowing he could not succeed any other way, Moses said to Jehovah, “If thy presence go not with me, carry us not up hence.”"
"That is what our members really want when they gather in a meeting or come into a classroom anyway. Most people don’t come to church looking merely for a few new gospel facts or to see old friends, though all of that is important. They come seeking a spiritual experience. They want peace. They want their faith fortified and their hope renewed. They want, in short, to be nourished by the good word of God, to be strengthened by the powers of heaven. Those of us who are called upon to speak or teach or lead have an obligation to help provide that, as best we possibly can. We can only do that if we ourselves are striving to know God, if we ourselves are continually seeking the light of His Only Begotten Son. Then, if our hearts are right, if we are as clean as we can be, if we have prayed and wept and prepared and worried until we don’t know what more we can do, God can say to us as He did to Alma and the sons of Mosiah: “Lift up thy head and rejoice. … I will give unto you success.”"
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"Satan is certainly not subtle in his teachings; why should we be? Whether we are instructing our children at home or standing before an audience in church, let us never make our faith difficult to detect. Remember—we are to be teachers “come from God.” Never sow seeds of doubt. Avoid self-serving performance and vanity. Prepare lessons well. Give scripturally based sermons. Teach the revealed doctrine. Bear heartfelt testimony. Pray and practice and try to improve. In our administrative meetings let us both “instruct and edify” as the revelations say, that even in these our teaching may ultimately be “from on high.” The Church will be the better for it, and so will you, for as Paul said to the Romans, “Thou therefore which teachest another, teachest thou not thyself?”"
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"Satan is certainly not subtle in his teachings; why should we be? Whether we are instructing our children at home or standing before an audience in church, let us never make our faith difficult to detect. Remember—we are to be teachers “come from God.” Never sow seeds of doubt. Avoid self-serving performance and vanity. Prepare lessons well. Give scripturally based sermons. Teach the revealed doctrine. Bear heartfelt testimony. Pray and practice and try to improve. In our administrative meetings let us both “instruct and edify” as the revelations say, that even in these our teaching may ultimately be “from on high.” The Church will be the better for it, and so will you, for as Paul said to the Romans, “Thou therefore which teachest another, teachest thou not thyself?”"
"A memorable account of the power of such teaching comes from the life of the prophet Jeremiah. This great man felt the way most teachers or speakers or Church officers feel when called—inexperienced, inadequate, frightened. “Ah, Lord,” he cried, “behold, I cannot speak: for I am [but] a child.”"
"But the Lord reassured him: “Be not afraid of their faces: for I am with thee. … Therefore gird up thy loins, and arise, and speak unto them.”"
"So speak unto them he did, but initially not with much success. Things went from bad to worse until finally he was imprisoned and made a laughingstock among the people. Angry that he had been so mistreated and maligned, Jeremiah vowed, in effect, never to teach another lesson, whether that be to an investigator, Primary child, new convert, or—heaven forbid—the 15-year-olds. “I will not make mention of [the Lord], nor speak any more in his name,” the discouraged prophet said. But then came the turning point of Jeremiah’s life. Something had been happening with every testimony he had borne, every scripture he had read, every truth he had taught. Something had been happening that he hadn’t counted on. Even as he vowed to close his mouth and walk away from the Lord’s work, he found that he could not. Why? Because “his word was in mine heart as a burning fire shut up in my bones, and I was weary with forbearing, and I could not stay.”"
"That is what happens in the gospel to both the teacher and the taught. It is what happened to Nephi and Lehi when, the book of Helaman says, “the Holy Spirit of God did come down from heaven, and did enter into their hearts, and they were filled as if with fire, and they could speak forth marvelous words.” Surely it must have been that kind of heavenly joy Mary Magdalene experienced when near the Garden Tomb she unexpectedly beheld her beloved resurrected Lord and said to Him simply, “Rabboni,” which is to say, literally, “Teacher.”"
Friday, February 27, 2015
Teaching our Children from the Scriptures
This was another item I shared on Facebook. I feel that it is so important to be the one teaching my children. The Lord gave them to our family and we need to make sure we are teaching them correct principles.
Another 1998 Conference talk. This was Sister Ann G. Wirthlin speaking about the importance of teaching our children the gospel. It is something that we try to do in our home, but we know we could give it more effort some days. Sister Wirthlin gives some excellent advice for us:
"As we witness the unfolding events of the last days, we cannot doubt that in this scripture the Lord is speaking directly to us. We are Israel of the latter days. We are they who must teach our children of Him. Peace that endures is not dependent upon outside forces that are beyond our control. “Learn of me, and listen to my words; walk in the meekness of my Spirit, and you shall have peace in me” (D&C 19:23)."
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"The Savior has given us a pattern to follow as we study the scriptures. We hear the word, we ponder upon its meaning, we ask our Heavenly Father to help us understand, and then our minds and hearts are prepared to receive the promised blessings. Pondering is more than reading words; it is searching for meanings that will help us as we relate to one another and as we make choices in our lives. It is allowing the word to move from our minds to our hearts. The Spirit bears witness to our hearts as we prayerfully seek to know the things of our Heavenly Father. When we have that witness and knowledge, we think and live and relate to each other in more Christlike ways."
***
"President Hinckley has counseled parents: “Read to your children. Read the story of the Son of God. Read to them from the New Testament. Read to them from the Book of Mormon. It will take time, and you are very busy, but it will prove to be a great blessing in your lives as well as in their lives. And there will grow in their hearts a great love for the Savior of the world, the only perfect man who walked the earth. He will become to them a very real living being, and His great atoning sacrifice as they grow to manhood and womanhood, will take on a new and more glorious meaning in their lives” (quoted in Church News, 6 Dec. 1997, 2). Brothers and sisters, that glorious promise from our prophet can be ours if we read to our children from the scriptures."
"There can be no greater joy than to know that our children love the Lord, no greater peace than that which comes when we feel of His love and understand the meaning of His atoning sacrifice. That spirit which comes when we share sacred things of the heart will bond us together as families. John expressed it well: “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth” (3 Jn. 1:4)."
Another 1998 Conference talk. This was Sister Ann G. Wirthlin speaking about the importance of teaching our children the gospel. It is something that we try to do in our home, but we know we could give it more effort some days. Sister Wirthlin gives some excellent advice for us:
"As we witness the unfolding events of the last days, we cannot doubt that in this scripture the Lord is speaking directly to us. We are Israel of the latter days. We are they who must teach our children of Him. Peace that endures is not dependent upon outside forces that are beyond our control. “Learn of me, and listen to my words; walk in the meekness of my Spirit, and you shall have peace in me” (D&C 19:23)."
***
"The Savior has given us a pattern to follow as we study the scriptures. We hear the word, we ponder upon its meaning, we ask our Heavenly Father to help us understand, and then our minds and hearts are prepared to receive the promised blessings. Pondering is more than reading words; it is searching for meanings that will help us as we relate to one another and as we make choices in our lives. It is allowing the word to move from our minds to our hearts. The Spirit bears witness to our hearts as we prayerfully seek to know the things of our Heavenly Father. When we have that witness and knowledge, we think and live and relate to each other in more Christlike ways."
***
"President Hinckley has counseled parents: “Read to your children. Read the story of the Son of God. Read to them from the New Testament. Read to them from the Book of Mormon. It will take time, and you are very busy, but it will prove to be a great blessing in your lives as well as in their lives. And there will grow in their hearts a great love for the Savior of the world, the only perfect man who walked the earth. He will become to them a very real living being, and His great atoning sacrifice as they grow to manhood and womanhood, will take on a new and more glorious meaning in their lives” (quoted in Church News, 6 Dec. 1997, 2). Brothers and sisters, that glorious promise from our prophet can be ours if we read to our children from the scriptures."
"There can be no greater joy than to know that our children love the Lord, no greater peace than that which comes when we feel of His love and understand the meaning of His atoning sacrifice. That spirit which comes when we share sacred things of the heart will bond us together as families. John expressed it well: “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children walk in truth” (3 Jn. 1:4)."
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